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	<title>Comments for Frydmania</title>
	<link>http://frydman.co.uk</link>
	<description>Dan and Alison on the couch of life</description>
	<pubDate>Sat, 22 Nov 2008 02:04:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on It&#8217;s a gas gas gas by alison</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/its-a-gas-gas-gas/#comment-3650</link>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 18:50:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>All the oxygen is going to the driving brain cells, clearly.</description>
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		<title>Comment on It&#8217;s a gas gas gas by Matthew</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/its-a-gas-gas-gas/#comment-3598</link>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Oct 2008 09:34:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://frydman.co.uk/its-a-gas-gas-gas/#comment-3598</guid>
					<description>Jumping Jack Flash.

Too easy.....</description>
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<p>Too easy&#8230;..
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		<title>Comment on In the wars by Alison W</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/in-the-wars/#comment-3597</link>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Oct 2008 08:18:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://frydman.co.uk/in-the-wars/#comment-3597</guid>
					<description>I also was brought up on the phrase "in the wars."  Not one that I've used on my kids yet as I'm hoping (coward that I am) to avoid protracted conversations about what war is. And why.
If we appeared crying and injured or sniffing and bleary-eyed as children we were always asked "what's worst with you?"  The instant and unconditional sympathy implied in the question was always a comfort, as was the permission to complain.  It's not a phrase I've heard people using recently.  Could we bring it back?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I also was brought up on the phrase &#8220;in the wars.&#8221;  Not one that I&#8217;ve used on my kids yet as I&#8217;m hoping (coward that I am) to avoid protracted conversations about what war is. And why.<br />
If we appeared crying and injured or sniffing and bleary-eyed as children we were always asked &#8220;what&#8217;s worst with you?&#8221;  The instant and unconditional sympathy implied in the question was always a comfort, as was the permission to complain.  It&#8217;s not a phrase I&#8217;ve heard people using recently.  Could we bring it back?
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		<title>Comment on Fantasy online dinners by mamma_soft</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/fantasy-online-dinners/#comment-3585</link>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Oct 2008 21:02:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://frydman.co.uk/fantasy-online-dinners/#comment-3585</guid>
					<description>I'll vote for pizza just now - in all it's glorious un-obtainableness.  But ask me tomorrow and I might just say fresh mango from the tropical backyard garden or how about some home-made 'vaggis'?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ll vote for pizza just now - in all it&#8217;s glorious un-obtainableness.  But ask me tomorrow and I might just say fresh mango from the tropical backyard garden or how about some home-made &#8216;vaggis&#8217;?
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		<title>Comment on There&#8217;s no such thing as a free&#8230; by Dan</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/theres-no-such-thing-as-a-free/#comment-3555</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Oct 2008 09:45:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://frydman.co.uk/theres-no-such-thing-as-a-free/#comment-3555</guid>
					<description>Erm, there's an IT supplier you know quite well where most of their products start at a couple of grand upwards.  The reason is profit and profit is used for re-investment and growth.  Apparently... 

At least advice is free, until it turns into consultancy and then normal rules don't apply.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Erm, there&#8217;s an IT supplier you know quite well where most of their products start at a couple of grand upwards.  The reason is profit and profit is used for re-investment and growth.  Apparently&#8230; </p>
<p>At least advice is free, until it turns into consultancy and then normal rules don&#8217;t apply.
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		<title>Comment on Food miles? by Dan</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/food-miles/#comment-3554</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Oct 2008 09:39:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://frydman.co.uk/food-miles/#comment-3554</guid>
					<description>Definitely in favour of a quarter lamb in the freezer, but people need to come to my birthday party and eat ice cream drizzled with Chocolate Tree chocolate hazelnut spread...  there's lateral thinking for you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Definitely in favour of a quarter lamb in the freezer, but people need to come to my birthday party and eat ice cream drizzled with Chocolate Tree chocolate hazelnut spread&#8230;  there&#8217;s lateral thinking for you!
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		<title>Comment on Hitting people and running away by Mamma Soft</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/hitting-people-and-running-away/#comment-3549</link>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2008 22:19:41 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Love your writing. Love you. Cheers for the thoughts.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Food miles? by Andrew Jones</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/food-miles/#comment-3537</link>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Oct 2008 14:03:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://frydman.co.uk/food-miles/#comment-3537</guid>
					<description>Alison - I think part of the issue is we are so used to the artificially low prices the supermarkets charge which don't really refelct the true cost of decent food. We are conned into believeing that their stiff is 'value'!! Re meat - organic is expensive but we only eat meat at weekends and so can afford to buy it now. I think it is a sacrifice worth making!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alison - I think part of the issue is we are so used to the artificially low prices the supermarkets charge which don&#8217;t really refelct the true cost of decent food. We are conned into believeing that their stiff is &#8216;value&#8217;!! Re meat - organic is expensive but we only eat meat at weekends and so can afford to buy it now. I think it is a sacrifice worth making!
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		<title>Comment on Black gold by Grit</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/black-gold/#comment-3519</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2008 19:21:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://frydman.co.uk/black-gold/#comment-3519</guid>
					<description>Crumble with brambles and ice cream - I ought to visit you soon....</description>
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		<title>Comment on Cars and trucks and things that go by Alison W</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/cars-and-trucks-and-things-that-go/#comment-3518</link>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Sep 2008 21:31:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://frydman.co.uk/cars-and-trucks-and-things-that-go/#comment-3518</guid>
					<description>By way of an update:  Donn's deep passion for tractors is showing some signs of abating.  Fire engines are becoming a firm favourite.  Perhaps this is because we pass the fire station on the way home from playgroup and often see one or two fire engines on our journey home.  Dunfermline fire men are particularly obliging and now wave when they see us coming along the pavement.  As you know, Alison, we are fairly conspicuous, even from a distance.
I'm still not sure who is more thrilled by the sight of a fire engine full of waving fire fighters, Donn or his mother...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>By way of an update:  Donn&#8217;s deep passion for tractors is showing some signs of abating.  Fire engines are becoming a firm favourite.  Perhaps this is because we pass the fire station on the way home from playgroup and often see one or two fire engines on our journey home.  Dunfermline fire men are particularly obliging and now wave when they see us coming along the pavement.  As you know, Alison, we are fairly conspicuous, even from a distance.<br />
I&#8217;m still not sure who is more thrilled by the sight of a fire engine full of waving fire fighters, Donn or his mother&#8230;
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		<title>Comment on All things bright and beautiful by Andrew Jones</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/all-things-bright-and-beautiful/#comment-3474</link>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Sep 2008 10:30:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://frydman.co.uk/all-things-bright-and-beautiful/#comment-3474</guid>
					<description>Hey Alison sound slike you did well! WE too struggled and plan a polytunnel for next year so at least when it is pissing down we can get out and do something!
Re Rupert's comment - you can get organic slug pellets - made of iron phospphate which only kills slugs and not the animals that may eat the dead slugs. And uneaten pellets break down into iron and phosphate which feeds yer plants!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Alison sound slike you did well! WE too struggled and plan a polytunnel for next year so at least when it is pissing down we can get out and do something!<br />
Re Rupert&#8217;s comment - you can get organic slug pellets - made of iron phospphate which only kills slugs and not the animals that may eat the dead slugs. And uneaten pellets break down into iron and phosphate which feeds yer plants!!
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		<title>Comment on All things bright and beautiful by Rupert Ward</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/all-things-bright-and-beautiful/#comment-3472</link>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Sep 2008 07:33:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://frydman.co.uk/all-things-bright-and-beautiful/#comment-3472</guid>
					<description>I haven't found it easy this summer either alison, but have had lettuce, mangetout, beans, courgettes ... but i have had to use slug pellets.  Not organic, but the only way to get some stuff to produce any food!  I have also found that growing the seeds in small pots inside, to get them going, helps!

I just wish i had a bit more space ... my few square feed does well, but i would love much more!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I haven&#8217;t found it easy this summer either alison, but have had lettuce, mangetout, beans, courgettes &#8230; but i have had to use slug pellets.  Not organic, but the only way to get some stuff to produce any food!  I have also found that growing the seeds in small pots inside, to get them going, helps!</p>
<p>I just wish i had a bit more space &#8230; my few square feed does well, but i would love much more!
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		<title>Comment on Cars and trucks and things that go by David</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/cars-and-trucks-and-things-that-go/#comment-3457</link>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Sep 2008 08:12:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://frydman.co.uk/cars-and-trucks-and-things-that-go/#comment-3457</guid>
					<description>Depite the obvious Thomo-centric focus, our boy has a predilection for anything with any form of transport - snow ploughs, fire engines, the lot (with the possible exception of milk floats, as we don't tend to see many of them here; but do you remember his "tractor friend" round the back of our road?). Indeed, we're now onto backhoe loaders and things like that - Rachel and I are rapidly having to expand our knowledge and vocabulary in these areas .... Current fave is his remote control 4x4 ("fuori strada") which we got him for his birthday, which gives rise to further opportunities for linguistic crossover/interference. We also have a much treasured copy of the Richard Scarry book ("Where's Goldbug?"), which I think Miriam found for him in a second-hand bookshop in Cambridge. Keep blogging, David et al.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Depite the obvious Thomo-centric focus, our boy has a predilection for anything with any form of transport - snow ploughs, fire engines, the lot (with the possible exception of milk floats, as we don&#8217;t tend to see many of them here; but do you remember his &#8220;tractor friend&#8221; round the back of our road?). Indeed, we&#8217;re now onto backhoe loaders and things like that - Rachel and I are rapidly having to expand our knowledge and vocabulary in these areas &#8230;. Current fave is his remote control 4&#215;4 (&#8221;fuori strada&#8221;) which we got him for his birthday, which gives rise to further opportunities for linguistic crossover/interference. We also have a much treasured copy of the Richard Scarry book (&#8221;Where&#8217;s Goldbug?&#8221;), which I think Miriam found for him in a second-hand bookshop in Cambridge. Keep blogging, David et al.
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		<title>Comment on Making up for it by Rupert Ward</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/making-up-for-it/#comment-3418</link>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Sep 2008 21:04:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://frydman.co.uk/making-up-for-it/#comment-3418</guid>
					<description>revival is breaking out on Dan &#38; Alison's blog ... 4 readers!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Making up for it by Grit</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/making-up-for-it/#comment-3402</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Sep 2008 19:33:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://frydman.co.uk/making-up-for-it/#comment-3402</guid>
					<description>Hey, the two of you: Al's got an international audience. Hello from Germany...</description>
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		<title>Comment on Making up for it by Rupert Ward</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/making-up-for-it/#comment-3395</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Sep 2008 07:55:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://frydman.co.uk/making-up-for-it/#comment-3395</guid>
					<description>clearly you other reader is matthew, who i hadn't noticed had left a comment!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Making up for it by Shona</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/making-up-for-it/#comment-3393</link>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Sep 2008 23:16:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Wow!  I didn't even know you had a blog.  Well, your readership has just increased.  Count me in. (Thank you FB)</description>
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		<title>Comment on Making up for it by Rupert Ward</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/making-up-for-it/#comment-3392</link>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Sep 2008 21:12:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>"But in the last flurry of writing, I did discover I had a small readership at least"

Is that me?  It might have been quicker to pick up the phone?!?!?!

Thanks for the update Alison ... lovely to hear you news. 
Ps.  just pulling your leg - i am sure there must be someone else who reads...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;But in the last flurry of writing, I did discover I had a small readership at least&#8221;</p>
<p>Is that me?  It might have been quicker to pick up the phone?!?!?!</p>
<p>Thanks for the update Alison &#8230; lovely to hear you news.<br />
Ps.  just pulling your leg - i am sure there must be someone else who reads&#8230;
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		<title>Comment on Making up for it by Matthew</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/making-up-for-it/#comment-3391</link>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Sep 2008 20:06:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I refuse to believe you about coffee.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Back to blog school by Rupert Ward</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/back-to-blog-school/#comment-3390</link>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Sep 2008 19:04:07 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>yes write ... forget ditches ... write ...</description>
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		<title>Comment on When is a wynd not a ginnel? by Innovate</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/when-is-a-wynd-not-a-ginnel/#comment-2519</link>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Jun 2008 18:38:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://frydman.co.uk/when-is-a-wynd-not-a-ginnel/#comment-2519</guid>
					<description>I can offer these other terms for a ginnel... Jitty, Jennel, Gypsy Path, Entry, Backs, and Link. I'm sure there's many more though...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can offer these other terms for a ginnel&#8230; Jitty, Jennel, Gypsy Path, Entry, Backs, and Link. I&#8217;m sure there&#8217;s many more though&#8230;
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		<title>Comment on Heid in ma hauns by David</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/heid-in-ma-hauns/#comment-1531</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jan 2008 10:11:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I believe the correct term is "flipe", as taught to us by the Walkers, though I am in no way able to vouch for the spelling ... Your version made for far more interesting reading, however!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I believe the correct term is &#8220;flipe&#8221;, as taught to us by the Walkers, though I am in no way able to vouch for the spelling &#8230; Your version made for far more interesting reading, however!
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		<title>Comment on Eating up leftovers by Neil</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/eating-up-leftovers/#comment-1426</link>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Dec 2007 00:20:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://frydman.co.uk/eating-up-leftovers/#comment-1426</guid>
					<description>Junior Daughter had been nagging Senior Daughter about throwing out food, and Senior Daughter sent me the following link to the BBC website a few days ago ...

** The lost art of leftovers **
We waste too much food and should return to the way we lived during the war,says a new campaign. It would save us money and help save the planet.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Junior Daughter had been nagging Senior Daughter about throwing out food, and Senior Daughter sent me the following link to the BBC website a few days ago &#8230;</p>
<p>** The lost art of leftovers **<br />
We waste too much food and should return to the way we lived during the war,says a new campaign. It would save us money and help save the planet.
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		<title>Comment on The Frydman 2007 round up by katrina</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/the-frydman-2007-round-up/#comment-1423</link>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Dec 2007 23:10:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Hey, Alison, I really miss bumping into you and would love to catch up in the new year......lets make a date....

much love, 
Katrina</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, Alison, I really miss bumping into you and would love to catch up in the new year&#8230;&#8230;lets make a date&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Over the water yet? by The Other Half</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/over-the-water-yet/#comment-1410</link>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Dec 2007 09:56:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>By the way, if you were interested in how much the taxi was at the point we jumped out at the West End - about £28 - from Dunfermline to Edinburgh.  Would expect that all the way to Waverley would have added another £4.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>By the way, if you were interested in how much the taxi was at the point we jumped out at the West End - about £28 - from Dunfermline to Edinburgh.  Would expect that all the way to Waverley would have added another £4.
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		<title>Comment on Jog my memory by The Other Half</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/jog-my-memory/#comment-1366</link>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Dec 2007 21:51:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Ah, photos of life.  It's a record of who we were and who we wanted to be.  Something to keep for the future and for others to ponder on.  I would love to be able to look through more photos from the time that my mum was 20 something and yet there's not much to be had that doesn't include me in some way.  

Who was she?  What was she like?  What did she like?  

Going further back, what was my gran like when she was 20 something?  What was it really like in London in 1946/47?  What was the Festival of Britain like in 1951?  I could ask her these questions - in fact I will at Christmas and let you all know.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ah, photos of life.  It&#8217;s a record of who we were and who we wanted to be.  Something to keep for the future and for others to ponder on.  I would love to be able to look through more photos from the time that my mum was 20 something and yet there&#8217;s not much to be had that doesn&#8217;t include me in some way.  </p>
<p>Who was she?  What was she like?  What did she like?  </p>
<p>Going further back, what was my gran like when she was 20 something?  What was it really like in London in 1946/47?  What was the Festival of Britain like in 1951?  I could ask her these questions - in fact I will at Christmas and let you all know.
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		<title>Comment on Hail fellow, well met by Clare van Loenen</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/hail-fellow-well-met/#comment-1191</link>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2007 19:08:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Just reading this, unwisely while at work, and it makes me cry and smile. Thank you Alison.. I hear him saying 'Hello my girl' too. What are we going to do without him?

He actually died on Thursday morning when we'd all gone downstairs for coffee. He couldn't have done a moment longer.

Better go and pour some wine.
Lots of love</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just reading this, unwisely while at work, and it makes me cry and smile. Thank you Alison.. I hear him saying &#8216;Hello my girl&#8217; too. What are we going to do without him?</p>
<p>He actually died on Thursday morning when we&#8217;d all gone downstairs for coffee. He couldn&#8217;t have done a moment longer.</p>
<p>Better go and pour some wine.<br />
Lots of love
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		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/this-years-catch-phrases/#comment-1190</link>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2007 15:51:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Have forwarded this to Rachel's and my family as it made me chuckle so much! Particularly the bits about Thomas ...

More power to your blogging elbows
Love from us all
David</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have forwarded this to Rachel&#8217;s and my family as it made me chuckle so much! Particularly the bits about Thomas &#8230;</p>
<p>More power to your blogging elbows<br />
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		<title>Comment on Taking the plunge by Matthew</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Oct 2007 19:10:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>It was hard on Sunday, still can't put my finger on it why though.  I'll be blogging about it in due course.

There was definitely a "space" that needed filled.  God was definitely up to something, and I'm so glad He chose you to bring His word.  Right choice for the moment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It was hard on Sunday, still can&#8217;t put my finger on it why though.  I&#8217;ll be blogging about it in due course.</p>
<p>There was definitely a &#8220;space&#8221; that needed filled.  God was definitely up to something, and I&#8217;m so glad He chose you to bring His word.  Right choice for the moment.
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		<title>Comment on Unsaved by Joanna</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/unsaved/#comment-911</link>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Oct 2007 15:59:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Hello

I know just what you mean about facebook, and about hoarding… 

I’m a compulsive hoarder, and completely relate to your attachment to the arrangement of the dressing table. I ‘blame’ (not really the appropriate word!) having had a happy childhood, and life generally, and not wanting to let anything slip away, from reality to memory and into nothingness. It’s also no doubt to do with retaining control, at least over something, in the midst of change. I have got around it over the past couple of years by taking of photos of lots and lots of very random things – hanging onto the memories, without all the associated clutter (although still enough associated clutter to do a fair job of filling a 3 bed house, as it turns out…) This is maybe a slight cop out, avoiding the real leaving behind…? But it has allowed me to do a lot of chucking out, so will do for now. 

So to facebook, which seems to me related… 

It’s so nice getting back in touch with people – but the act of starting an email with – oops, I didn’t mean to lose touch with you – is such an acknowledgement that things have actually changed… Things and people and relationships move on, no matter how many photos one takes. This was brought home to me the other day when I visited the hostel in Nepal where I lived and worked for 6 months, 2000-2001. I honestly half expected to see the kids I worked with running around outside… But of course they weren’t there, and the lady who opened the door (yes, I did knock) was very nice, and said they did work for the same organisation I had – but she wasn’t anything to do with my life, past or present. People, unlike my precious odds and ends, are not easily captured and kept in a photo. 

But now there’s facebook…! I suppose the challenge for me is to not use it to ‘hoard’ friends (awful concept!), or to pretend that one’s relationship with one’s school friends can be the same as it always was – but to maintain a bit of a link with people’s new realities… And the other challenge, especially these 3 months, is not to become so involved in keeping up with people in the virtual world, that I forget to build new relationships with people in the actual world… 

(Having said that, it’s great to discover the Frydmania page!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello</p>
<p>I know just what you mean about facebook, and about hoarding… </p>
<p>I’m a compulsive hoarder, and completely relate to your attachment to the arrangement of the dressing table. I ‘blame’ (not really the appropriate word!) having had a happy childhood, and life generally, and not wanting to let anything slip away, from reality to memory and into nothingness. It’s also no doubt to do with retaining control, at least over something, in the midst of change. I have got around it over the past couple of years by taking of photos of lots and lots of very random things – hanging onto the memories, without all the associated clutter (although still enough associated clutter to do a fair job of filling a 3 bed house, as it turns out…) This is maybe a slight cop out, avoiding the real leaving behind…? But it has allowed me to do a lot of chucking out, so will do for now. </p>
<p>So to facebook, which seems to me related… </p>
<p>It’s so nice getting back in touch with people – but the act of starting an email with – oops, I didn’t mean to lose touch with you – is such an acknowledgement that things have actually changed… Things and people and relationships move on, no matter how many photos one takes. This was brought home to me the other day when I visited the hostel in Nepal where I lived and worked for 6 months, 2000-2001. I honestly half expected to see the kids I worked with running around outside… But of course they weren’t there, and the lady who opened the door (yes, I did knock) was very nice, and said they did work for the same organisation I had – but she wasn’t anything to do with my life, past or present. People, unlike my precious odds and ends, are not easily captured and kept in a photo. </p>
<p>But now there’s facebook…! I suppose the challenge for me is to not use it to ‘hoard’ friends (awful concept!), or to pretend that one’s relationship with one’s school friends can be the same as it always was – but to maintain a bit of a link with people’s new realities… And the other challenge, especially these 3 months, is not to become so involved in keeping up with people in the virtual world, that I forget to build new relationships with people in the actual world… </p>
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		<title>Comment on Rock around the pools by Rupert Ward</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/rock-around-the-pools/#comment-224</link>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jun 2007 08:43:41 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Thanks so much for looking after our boys Alison ... it was a lovely day!
Toby does have a few funny ideas sometimes ...</description>
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		<title>Comment on When I grow up I want to be&#8230; by katrina</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/when-i-grow-up-i-want-to-be/#comment-211</link>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jun 2007 12:07:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Hi Alison,,,,,,,,,,,have you ever thought of going into writing for a living.....I love reading your stuff! I would buy your books!

Glad to hear your well and about to start your home study, do call if you want to chat about anything. Would be lovely to see you soon but know how busy you are. 

Much love, 
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Alison,,,,,,,,,,,have you ever thought of going into writing for a living&#8230;..I love reading your stuff! I would buy your books!</p>
<p>Glad to hear your well and about to start your home study, do call if you want to chat about anything. Would be lovely to see you soon but know how busy you are. </p>
<p>Much love,<br />
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		<title>Comment on Busy in the blogosphere by Rupert Ward</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/busy-in-the-blogosphere/#comment-198</link>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 May 2007 07:20:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://frydman.co.uk/busy-in-the-blogosphere/#comment-198</guid>
					<description>Hey Alison - thanks for the mention ... and i felt i just had to make a comment on this post!!!!

Just one comment: Can you Hyperlink the blogs referenced here?  Then people could click on the link to go straight to the blog?  I obviously know my blog and Tony's ... but would like to check out the other one!!?!?!?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Alison - thanks for the mention &#8230; and i felt i just had to make a comment on this post!!!!</p>
<p>Just one comment: Can you Hyperlink the blogs referenced here?  Then people could click on the link to go straight to the blog?  I obviously know my blog and Tony&#8217;s &#8230; but would like to check out the other one!!?!?!?
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		<title>Comment on Enneagram and The West Wing by Andrew Aveyard</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/enneagram-and-the-west-wing/#comment-188</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 May 2007 15:54:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://frydman.co.uk/enneagram-and-the-west-wing/#comment-188</guid>
					<description>I think Toby was more of a perfectionist than you suggest.
And have been re-watching season 7 (I miss my friends now they are gone) and think that the writers were wrong.  The Toby we knew in season 1- 6 would have done it.  I only raise the point because Season 7 changed the way we think about his whole character.  
Not sure if you noticed, but managed to convince Flip to walk down the isle to west wing theme tune! Not sure what type that makes me?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think Toby was more of a perfectionist than you suggest.<br />
And have been re-watching season 7 (I miss my friends now they are gone) and think that the writers were wrong.  The Toby we knew in season 1- 6 would have done it.  I only raise the point because Season 7 changed the way we think about his whole character.<br />
Not sure if you noticed, but managed to convince Flip to walk down the isle to west wing theme tune! Not sure what type that makes me?
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		<title>Comment on Paris Match(ing) Meets Eric by Rupert Ward</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/paris-matching-meets-eric/#comment-161</link>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2007 08:25:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://frydman.co.uk/paris-matching-meets-eric/#comment-161</guid>
					<description>He just gets everywhere that Erik???????

Fine looking chap though for so much travel and excitement!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Enneagram and The West Wing by L</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/enneagram-and-the-west-wing/#comment-126</link>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Apr 2007 09:05:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>And also, I'd have to say CJ is a 3w2 because she's so much stronger and driven than your average 2.</description>
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		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/enneagram-and-the-west-wing/#comment-125</link>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Apr 2007 09:03:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://frydman.co.uk/enneagram-and-the-west-wing/#comment-125</guid>
					<description>Josh is completely an 8w7 because he's continually bouncing off and running with ideas. I do agree that he meets Leo and Donna at 8 though.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Josh is completely an 8w7 because he&#8217;s continually bouncing off and running with ideas. I do agree that he meets Leo and Donna at 8 though.
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		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/enneagram-and-the-west-wing/#comment-105</link>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Mar 2007 09:03:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://frydman.co.uk/enneagram-and-the-west-wing/#comment-105</guid>
					<description>Good job Dan.  I don't really know Enneagram enough to really know - and have only just into West Wing (why were we not told about this before???).  Sorry - not much good for a discussion ...

I was thinking if I could do a Myers-Briggs, but not that good at that either!  Oh well, i will stick to my day job ... which is all about people (worrying really!).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good job Dan.  I don&#8217;t really know Enneagram enough to really know - and have only just into West Wing (why were we not told about this before???).  Sorry - not much good for a discussion &#8230;</p>
<p>I was thinking if I could do a Myers-Briggs, but not that good at that either!  Oh well, i will stick to my day job &#8230; which is all about people (worrying really!).
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		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/making-sense-of-life-and-work/#comment-20</link>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Mar 2007 23:14:22 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Yes yes yes!  Good stuff Alison.
I love the last paragraph ... you certainly have something to write.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes yes yes!  Good stuff Alison.<br />
I love the last paragraph &#8230; you certainly have something to write.
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		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/book-fair-a-go-go/#comment-18</link>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Mar 2007 22:15:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://frydman.co.uk/book-fair-a-go-go/#comment-18</guid>
					<description>I must protest at the lack of business books at the fair this year!  In past years there were at least five.  This year I bought both of them . . .  Oh, well - that's what Shelter Books in Stockbridge is for.  Got two Rough Guides; one for Austria and one for Morocco.  I wonder if we'll make it to Marrakech this year?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I must protest at the lack of business books at the fair this year!  In past years there were at least five.  This year I bought both of them . . .  Oh, well - that&#8217;s what Shelter Books in Stockbridge is for.  Got two Rough Guides; one for Austria and one for Morocco.  I wonder if we&#8217;ll make it to Marrakech this year?
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		<title>Comment on Go for it Mr Cameron by Rupert</title>
		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/go-for-it-mr-cameron/#comment-14</link>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jan 2007 23:15:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>ps good to see you posting again since christmas ...</description>
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		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/go-for-it-mr-cameron/#comment-13</link>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jan 2007 23:15:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Yes i agree Dan (or is it alison?) ... I am not sure about Menzes Campbell (I don't find him that inspiring), but i think a rejuvinated tories would be a really good think for politics.

Centre ground for tory and labour is a good thing.  The only thing i worry is that sometimes the centre ground doesn't produce radical solutions, which is probably needed for a lot of the ills in society</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes i agree Dan (or is it alison?) &#8230; I am not sure about Menzes Campbell (I don&#8217;t find him that inspiring), but i think a rejuvinated tories would be a really good think for politics.</p>
<p>Centre ground for tory and labour is a good thing.  The only thing i worry is that sometimes the centre ground doesn&#8217;t produce radical solutions, which is probably needed for a lot of the ills in society
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		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/poems-in-public-places/#comment-7</link>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jan 2007 19:20:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I was brought up in working class district of south east London.
My schooling at West Square adjacent to the Imperial War Museum was interrupted by the outbreak of WW2. I have always been interested in literature and have composed a few poems myself,
especially when I was in RAF Hospital Ely for a year.But a poem that has stuck with me throughout my life and which I try to abide by is "Vitai Lampada" (There's a breathless hush in the close tonight)by Sir Henry Newbolt. I shan't quote it here it's too long I'm sure you either know it or can look it up.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was brought up in working class district of south east London.<br />
My schooling at West Square adjacent to the Imperial War Museum was interrupted by the outbreak of WW2. I have always been interested in literature and have composed a few poems myself,<br />
especially when I was in RAF Hospital Ely for a year.But a poem that has stuck with me throughout my life and which I try to abide by is &#8220;Vitai Lampada&#8221; (There&#8217;s a breathless hush in the close tonight)by Sir Henry Newbolt. I shan&#8217;t quote it here it&#8217;s too long I&#8217;m sure you either know it or can look it up.
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		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/poems-in-public-places/#comment-5</link>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Dec 2006 09:15:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Yes I enjoy coming across poems too....they can make one stop and think for a moment. 'What is this world if, full of care, we have no time to stop and stare...'</description>
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		<link>http://frydman.co.uk/wait-for-the-little-green-man/#comment-4</link>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Dec 2006 06:52:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>So you've been to Berlin, even to the Ampelmann shop, and did not tell neither Annett nor me? You have to promise, Al, that next time you get in touch in advance!! Love, Griti!!</description>
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